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Living the Gray Life

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April 19, 2016 | Posted in: College

Computer Science: A Girl’s Perspective

I’ve always heard that the engineering and computing fields are dominated by men and that only a fraction of a percent of engineering and computing students at colleges and universities are girls. Going into college, I thought that this was just a statistic that has become overblown in the past few years. But when I walked in to my first computer science class last semester, I realized it’s all true. Being one of a small group of girls in my major has really changed my view on myself  and social stigmas.

computer science from a girl's point of view

My exact major is computer information systems. Basically, it’s computer science combined with a business minor. Personally, I think this is a really well-rounded degree. I’m becoming a computer scientist all while learning about business.       If you’re a girl looking to pursue an engineering or computing degree, don’t be scared! In fact, I highly encourage it! The job stability is extremely high, and companies are always looking to diversify their workplace. So far, here’s what being the minority in my degree has taught me:

SOCIAL STIGMAS DO EXIST

As I said, we’ve all heard the “there is a lack of women in computing and engineering programs.” In recent years, there have been more women joining the computing forces, but we still fall way behind. Older generations of men will look down on you. They will think that you’re not as qualified just because you’re a girl. They will view you as a lesser individual. Now, I’m not saying that EVERY man views women in the computing field in this light, but it happens.

SELF-CONFIDENCE IS KEY

Because of the lack of women and those select individuals who think that women aren’t as qualified, I’ve had to learn to be confident in myself. I have to stand up for myself and my programming and my abilities. The only way to really succeed in the face of social stigmas is to prove whoever thinks that way wrong. I have to be confident in my work and know that it’s right and it works.

SURROUND YOURSELF WITH POSITIVE PEOPLE

I think this is a life motto in general, but I find that it’s really important. Why would I want to be around people who think I’m not good enough and try to bring me down? This has been a big realization since been in college. Surround yourself with people who encourage you. Be around people who you aspire to be like.

All in all, if anyone tells you you can’t do something, prove them wrong (well unless it involves illegal activities. In that case, don’t do it). My major has really made me grow as a person, and I am so grateful for that! If you’re in college, has your major changed you in any way?

~Abigail Gray

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